Advanced Domina Tapas Workshop

In our Advanced Domina Tapas session, participants are treated to a comprehensive two-hour exploration of advanced techniques in bondage, torture, and impact play. This workshop builds upon the lessons taught in the Domina Tapas workshop, but welcomes individuals with basic experience in BDSM who are eager to expand their horizons. Advanced Domina Tapas is a 2 hour sampling session focusing on more advanced floor and suspension bondage, breath play, and the artistry of torture and impact play with floggers and riding crops,  taught with a model. Through thoughtful guidance and compassionate instruction, A Girl Called Kill ensures that every participant feels seen, heard, and valued, regardless of their level of experience.

Participants can expect a safe and inclusive environment, and the event space will be closed off to non participants. With a limited group size of 10-15 FLINTAs, intimacy and camaraderie are fostered, allowing for personalized attention and meaningful connections. As you enter, tucked away amidst the bookshelves of Another Country Bookstore, you’ll be greeted by the lovely manager of the bookshop Kiki, and our host A Girl Called Kill, a seasoned practitioner and advocate for feminist BDSM. Whether you arrive solo or with a partner, Advanced Domina Tapas invites you to explore your desires, expand your knowledge, and embrace your inner Domina in a supportive and empowering environment. Join us as we embark on a journey of self-discovery and liberation.

This Workshop begins with a lecture on consent and pre-negotiation, as well as safety and the psychology of subspace. Then there will be practical demonstrations and you will also get some hands-on practice with the model. Subjects include:

  • An advanced lecture on the psychology and neurology of torture and subspace and how that relates to advanced forms of consent
  • Learning a variety of suspension bondage ties from Shibari and Western rope systems, including how to make a chest harness, how to suspend a limb, and how to tie uplines. You will learn how to incorporate these ties into a suspension predicament. Ropes will be provided for practice, and all the ties can be practiced on either a partner or on yourself
  • Advanced Breath Play and Carotid-artery Choking for suspended submissives
  • The entire second half of the class is dedicated to impact play and consensual torture with demonstrations of barehanded spankingpaddles and riding crop, as well as a long flogging demonstration. You will be able to practice using the riding crop or flogger on a model.
  • Aftercare for both Dommes and submissives

Sign up

The next workshop is April 25, 2024. Sign up here.

  • Doors and drinks: 19:00
  • Start: 19:30
  • Length: 2 hours with break
  • Open to: FLINTA only
  • Where: Another Country Bookshop, Riemannstraße 7, 10961
  • Price: Sliding scale 25-50€ (participants discretion, no questions asked)
  • Questions: Contact Us

More Advanced Domina Tapas Workshops


These Workshops are open to all FLINTA (Women, Lesbians, Intersex, Non-binary, Trans, or Agender People). They are particularly geared towards:

• Students from our Domina Tapas Course

 Dominatrixes seeking to enhance their earning potential through mastering new techniques, as well as Sex Workers transitioning into the role of Dominatrixes.

Couples desiring to deepen their dynamic by honing their skills in D/s

Amateur Kinksters learning new BDSM skills in a safe, considered environment with a professional guide

Advanced Kinksters seeking to cultivate psychological safety as they venture into more intense forms of BDSM play, including sadistic scenarios, consensual non-consent (CNC), psychological sadism, or risk-aware scenes.

The Domina Tapas workshop was incredibly informative, with valuable insights into the psychology of BDSM dynamics and a perfect mix of theory and interactive experience.

By Jana S. / Student

Learning from Ms. Kill was truly a transformative experience. She not only made learning enjoyable but also painted a holistic picture of the needs and possibilities of the body.

By Allegra A. / Student

The Domina Tapas workshop was absolutely fascinating, and what made it stand out was the practical approach. The instructor didn’t just talk, she brought models for hands on demonstrations. It was eye opening to see the techniques in action and even try them out myself. The instructor was knowledgeable and created a supportive and safe environment where everyone felt comfortable exploring their dominant side.

By Ines A. / Student

Professorin Kill

A Girl Called Kill, or Mistress Kill, is a luminary in the realm of BDSM education, drawing from over a decade of immersive experience as a Domina and Educatrix. Her journey began growing up within the vibrant tapestry of a progressive, queer, and kinky feminist collective, where she honed her craft in the intricate artistry of ropework, pain, and psychological sadism – with a keen emphasis on consent and risk-aware safety protocols. Within this nurturing environment that Mistress Kill cultivated her understanding of the transformative power possible in BDSM dynamics. She emerged not only as a practitioner but as a radical educator, dedicated to nurturing a culture of empowerment and inclusivity.

As a lesbian and a transgender person, A Girl Called Kill brings a deeply personal understanding of the intricacies of identity, sexuality, and the human experience to her practice, and teaches with a queer-inclusive mindset towards identity, minds, and bodies. In a world often fraught with misunderstanding and stigma, she endeavours to create a sanctuary where individuals can explore their desires, shed societal constraints, and embrace the full spectrum of their authentic selves. Students are not only taught the technical intricacies of bondage, sadism, and Dominance, but are guided on a journey of introspection and growth. Central to Mistress Kill’s philosophy is the notion of BDSM as a means of transcending societal norms and forging deep, authentic bonds—with themselves, with their partners, and within the broader community…


Our team brings a wealth of expertise, passion, and lived experience to the forefront. Their diverse backgrounds, perspectives, and skill sets enrich the learning experience, ensuring that every student receives comprehensive and holistic instruction tailored to their unique journey. Beyond their formidable skills in the realm of BDSM, they are compassionate mentors, staunch advocates, and trailblazers in the Berlin kink scene, shaping the future of BDSM education and advocacy one whip crack at a time. 


Model, Site Design
Mistress Kill

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