Frameworks of Sexuality and Gender for Non-normative Bodies and Identities

In Frameworks of Sexuality and Gender for Non-normative Bodies and Identities you will learn how to look beyond the scripted narratives of what identity, sex, and intimacy are “supposed to” look and feel like. You will learn about the historical arc of accepted vs queer identities as they relate to gender, sex,  sexual orientation, love, and sexuality. I will show how to approach an unbiased understanding not just of queerness but these principles in their fundamental form. How to understand gender in a wholistic way that doesn’t require creating in and out groups. You will learn nuanced academic terminology and useful slang for approaching sex, love, and bdsm for trans, non-binary, intersex, and other queer experiences and identities. We will discuss an expanded model that combines progressive gender, sex, and sexual concepts into a single usable framework of attraction. Throughout the class I will answer any questions and confusions you have. 

This class is open to a wide range of students and as a result the depth into queer theory is tailored to the student. For beginners we focus of basic frameworks and  the questions the student is currently grappling with. I’ve also taught this class to people with queer genders and sexualities who have a history within queer scenes and bdsm, and those lessons delved really deep.

This class is available as an online course! Online courses are two hour video chats with the Professorin. If you would like to take this class online rather than in person in Berlin, simply mention that in the sign up form.


Class Info

The lessons at Miss Kill’s Domina Finishing School are private lessons held at the studio in Weisensee, Berlin. The classes are offered for a wide range of skill sets from absolute amateurs and casual players to professional Dominatrixes. Private lessons are two hours long and you are the only student so that you can have the undivided attention of the Professorin and model as well as learning in a safe and private atmosphere where you can ask as many questions as you need. For relevant individual lessons, a model will be provided to practice on. Classes can also be booked by couples or small groups.


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    Classes are offered on a sliding scale for a personalized and private 2-hour class

    Private Lessons
    100-150€ / 2hrs

    Sliding Scale, choose your own price.

    Student Discount
    75€ / 2hrs

    If you are underemployed, full time student, or struggling for any reason, available without question or explanation.

    Sponsored Lessons
    50€ / 2hrs

    I am able to offer some further discounted classes for trans folks, refugees, and intersectional minorities. These classes are in part sponsored by other students. We will find something that suits you.


    If you are taking a Domina class in a subject that requires a model to practice on, Miss Kill will provide a FLINTA bdsm model for you to practice tying/whipping etc. The model is paid 50€ additional to the lesson cost.

    Couples Lessons
    75€ each (150€ total) / 2hrs

    One of you will be the student, and one of you will be the model. If you would both like to play both roles, you can book back to back sessions

    Group Lessons
    60€ per person / 2hrs

    Learn with your friends! You can all be students or you can trade off modeling for eachother. 4 students max.