Intro to Sadomasochism

Introduction to Sadomasochism offers a comprehensive exploration of many types of risk-aware consensual physical pain play, teaching essential techniques and tools for engaging in BDSM practices responsibly. Taught with a model, this session combines theoretical knowledge with practical instruction, allowing participants to gain hands-on experience under the guidance of an experienced instructor.

The session begins with an in-depth discussion of the principles of pain play, including the concepts of localized versus broad pain, pressure points, and the pain/pleasure dialectic. By understanding the dynamics of pain, participants will gain valuable insights into how to navigate sadomasochism with precision and intentionality. 

Participants will then learn how to use a variety of tools to induce and control sensations of pain, including metal, wood, bamboo, and weighted nipple clamps, as well as single and multi-pinwheels. Additionally, the session will explore the use of pervertables—everyday objects that can be repurposed for BDSM play—such as cooking spoons, chopsticks, and meat tenderizers. Through guided practice and demonstration, participants will learn how to wield these tools effectively and safely to create a range of sensations and experiences for their partners.

Furthermore, participants will explore the role of psychology in pain play, particularly the influence of fear and awareness on the submissive’s experience. By learning techniques to control and manipulate the submissive’s perspective, participants will gain the ability to enhance the psychological aspects of pain play, creating immersive and transformative BDSM experiences.

Finally, the session concludes with a step-by-step guide to aftercare for sadomasochism, emphasizing the importance of nurturing and supportive practices that promote emotional and physical well-being after intense play. Participants will learn how to provide effective aftercare for both themselves and their partners, fostering a sense of closeness and trust that enhances the overall BDSM experience, and makes sure submissives are grounded as they transition back to a state of equilibrium.

By the end of “Introduction to Sadomasochism,” participants will have gained the skills and confidence to engage in safe and consensual physical pain play, while also developing a deeper understanding of the psychological and emotional aspects of BDSM dynamics. Whether you’re new to sadomasochism or looking to expand your skills, this session offers a comprehensive and empowering introduction to the world of BDSM.


Class Info

The lessons at Miss Kill’s Domina Finishing School are private lessons held at the studio in Weisensee, Berlin. The classes are offered for a wide range of skill sets from absolute amateurs and casual players to professional Dominatrixes. Private lessons are two hours long and you are the only student so that you can have the undivided attention of the Professorin and model as well as learning in a safe and private atmosphere where you can ask as many questions as you need. For relevant individual lessons, a model will be provided to practice on. Classes can also be booked by couples or small groups.

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    Classes are offered on a sliding scale for a personalized and private 2-hour class

    Private Lessons
    100-150€ / 2hrs

    Sliding Scale, choose your own price.

    Student Discount
    75€ / 2hrs

    If you are underemployed, full time student, or struggling for any reason, available without question or explanation.

    Sponsored Lessons
    50€ / 2hrs

    I am able to offer some further discounted classes for trans folks, refugees, and intersectional minorities. These classes are in part sponsored by other students. We will find something that suits you.


    If you are taking a Domina class in a subject that requires a model to practice on, Miss Kill will provide a FLINTA bdsm model for you to practice tying/whipping etc. The model is paid 50€ additional to the lesson cost.

    Couples Lessons
    75€ each (150€ total) / 2hrs

    One of you will be the student, and one of you will be the model. If you would both like to play both roles, you can book back to back sessions

    Group Lessons
    60€ per person / 2hrs

    Learn with your friends! You can all be students or you can trade off modeling for eachother. 4 students max.