Impact Play 101: Intro to Impact Play

Impact Play 101: Introduction to Impact Play provides participants with a foundational understanding of the principles and practices of consensual impact play, emphasizing safety, consent, and skillful technique. Taught with a model, this session combines theoretical knowledge with practical instruction, allowing participants to gain hands-on experience under the guidance of an experienced instructor.

The session begins with a comprehensive discussion of consent, ensuring that all participants understand the importance of clear communication, negotiation, and respect for boundaries in impact play dynamics. Next, participants will learn how to properly tie up the model, creating a secure and comfortable position for impact play.

With the model properly bound, the instructor will outline safe and unsafe spaces on the body for impact, emphasizing the importance of avoiding vulnerable areas such as veins, nerves, and joints. Then you will  practice proper barehanded spanking techniques, and how to make their impacts have deeper effects on the blood flow of the body.

Next you will get the opportunity to try long and short paddles, and the impact of coverage vs repitition. Next you will learn how to precisely inflict pain with a riding crop. You will learn to control the thud versus sting effect, allowing you to control vibration versus impacting to the core. You will learn to control the weight and whip of your touch, so that you can precisely strike without relying on large swings.

Finally, the session concludes with a discussion on aftercare, highlighting the importance of nurturing and supportive practices that promote emotional and physical well-being after intense play. Students learn how to provide effective aftercare for both themselves and their partners, fostering a sense of closeness and trust that enhances the overall impact play experience. By the end of Impact Play 101: Introduction to Impact Play, participants will have gained a solid understanding of the principles and practices of consensual impact play, while also developing practical skills and techniques for engaging in safe and enjoyable play.


Class Info

The lessons at Miss Kill’s Domina Finishing School are private lessons held at the studio in Weisensee, Berlin. The classes are offered for a wide range of skill sets from absolute amateurs and casual players to professional Dominatrixes. Private lessons are two hours long and you are the only student so that you can have the undivided attention of the Professorin and model as well as learning in a safe and private atmosphere where you can ask as many questions as you need. For relevant individual lessons, a model will be provided to practice on. Classes can also be booked by couples or small groups.

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    Classes are offered on a sliding scale for a personalized and private 2-hour class

    Private Lessons
    100-150€ / 2hrs

    Sliding Scale, choose your own price.

    Student Discount
    75€ / 2hrs

    If you are underemployed, full time student, or struggling for any reason, available without question or explanation.

    Sponsored Lessons
    50€ / 2hrs

    I am able to offer some further discounted classes for trans folks, refugees, and intersectional minorities. These classes are in part sponsored by other students. We will find something that suits you.


    If you are taking a Domina class in a subject that requires a model to practice on, Miss Kill will provide a FLINTA bdsm model for you to practice tying/whipping etc. The model is paid 50€ additional to the lesson cost.

    Couples Lessons
    75€ each (150€ total) / 2hrs

    One of you will be the student, and one of you will be the model. If you would both like to play both roles, you can book back to back sessions

    Group Lessons
    60€ per person / 2hrs

    Learn with your friends! You can all be students or you can trade off modeling for eachother. 4 students max.