Psychological Sadism 101: Finding the Verbal Scalpel

Humiliation and degradation have particular resonances with those who enjoy them. Broad, unconsidered strokes can be inadvertently harmful; so finding the verbal scalpel is not only more effective, but more safe. subspace can be a form of escapism that allows many to release societies’ preconceived notions of self.

In Psychological Sadism 101: Finding the Verbal Scalpel you will begin exploring how to use verbal domination in a BDSM setting. You will learn about the Misattribution of Arousal effect that conflates fear and pleasure, and then how to differentiate between humiliation and degradation. You will be taught a dozen distinct subtypes of degradation, and as well as how those subtypes appear differently in the context of humiliation. We will go over both specific phrasing with examples as well as the theory behind these terms. You will get to practice verbal domination with stuffed animals and then you will be taught to analyze the meaning behind your words. Lastly we will cover emotional aftercare. 

This class is available as an online course! Online courses are two hour video chats with the Professorin. If you would like to take this class online rather than in person in Berlin, simply mention that in the sign up form.


Class Info

The lessons at Miss Kill’s Domina Finishing School are private lessons held at the studio in Weisensee, Berlin. The classes are offered for a wide range of skill sets from absolute amateurs and casual players to professional Dominatrixes. Private lessons are two hours long and you are the only student so that you can have the undivided attention of the Professorin and model as well as learning in a safe and private atmosphere where you can ask as many questions as you need. For relevant individual lessons, a model will be provided to practice on. Classes can also be booked by couples or small groups.


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    Classes are offered on a sliding scale for a personalized and private 2-hour class

    Private Lessons
    100-150€ / 2hrs

    Sliding Scale, choose your own price.

    Student Discount
    75€ / 2hrs

    If you are underemployed, full time student, or struggling for any reason, available without question or explanation.

    Sponsored Lessons
    50€ / 2hrs

    I am able to offer some further discounted classes for trans folks, refugees, and intersectional minorities. These classes are in part sponsored by other students. We will find something that suits you.


    If you are taking a Domina class in a subject that requires a model to practice on, Miss Kill will provide a FLINTA bdsm model for you to practice tying/whipping etc. The model is paid 50€ additional to the lesson cost.

    Couples Lessons
    75€ each (150€ total) / 2hrs

    One of you will be the student, and one of you will be the model. If you would both like to play both roles, you can book back to back sessions

    Group Lessons
    60€ per person / 2hrs

    Learn with your friends! You can all be students or you can trade off modeling for eachother. 4 students max.