The Intersection of BDSM and Trauma

In The intersection of BDSM and Trauma you will learn how to navigate BDSM when you and/or your partner has trauma, PTSD, or negative triggering experiences that may come up during play. We will focus on how to avoid triggering fear associations as well as how to prepare for them in a considered, educated, and compassionate manner. We will discuss Van der Kolk’s theory of somatic trauma and how to communicate with our partners’ non-verbal nervous systems. You will learn about the dangers of triggering somatic trauma responses: how to anticipate them and prepare for them. You will learn about the role BDSM can play in either enflaming or soothing traumatic memories. You will learn about the relationship that boundaries, triggers, and control have with defanging somatic trauma and refiling traumatic memories.

Requirements: 101 Consent for subspace, Pre-negotiation, and Aftercare or equivalent knowledge.

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This class is available as an online course! Online courses are two hour video chats with the Professorin. If you would like to take this class online rather than in person in Berlin, simply mention that in the sign up form.

 

Class Info

The lessons at Miss Kill’s Domina Finishing School are private lessons held at the studio in Weisensee, Berlin. The classes are offered for a wide range of skill sets from absolute amateurs and casual players to professional Dominatrixes. Private lessons are two hours long and you are the only student so that you can have the undivided attention of the Professorin and model as well as learning in a safe and private atmosphere where you can ask as many questions as you need. For relevant individual lessons, a model will be provided to practice on. Classes can also be booked by couples or small groups.

 

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    Prices

    Classes are offered on a sliding scale for a personalized and private 2-hour class


    Private Lessons
    100-150€ / 2hrs

    Sliding Scale, choose your own price.

    Student Discount
    75€ / 2hrs

    If you are underemployed, full time student, or struggling for any reason, available without question or explanation.

    Sponsored Lessons
    50€ / 2hrs

    I am able to offer some further discounted classes for trans folks, refugees, and intersectional minorities. These classes are in part sponsored by other students. We will find something that suits you.

    Models
    50€

    If you are taking a Domina class in a subject that requires a model to practice on, Miss Kill will provide a FLINTA bdsm model for you to practice tying/whipping etc. The model is paid 50€ additional to the lesson cost.

    Couples Lessons
    75€ each (150€ total) / 2hrs

    One of you will be the student, and one of you will be the model. If you would both like to play both roles, you can book back to back sessions

    Group Lessons
    60€ per person / 2hrs

    Learn with your friends! You can all be students or you can trade off modeling for eachother. 4 students max.

    Date:
    April 18, 2023
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