In Frameworks of Sexuality and Gender for Non-normative Bodies and Identities you will learn how to look beyond the scripted narratives of what identity, sex, and intimacy are “supposed to” look and feel like. You will learn about the historical arc of accepted vs queer identities as they relate to gender, sex, sexual orientation, love, and sexuality. I will show how to approach an unbiased understanding not just of queerness but these principles in their fundamental form. How to understand gender in a holistic way that doesn’t require creating in and out groups. You will learn nuanced academic terminology and useful slang for approaching sex, love, and bdsm for trans, non-binary, intersex, and other queer experiences and identities. We will discuss an expanded model that combines progressive gender, sex, and sexual concepts into a single usable framework of attraction. Throughout the class I will answer any questions and confusions you have. 

In Physiology and Psychology of the Nervous System, Erogenous Zones, subspace, and the Orgasm you will learn about the impact of the vagus nerve on sexuality, the similarities of clitoral and phallic structures, the depth of subspace, and the many conflicting ways to define, understand, and achieve the orgasm. Mostly we will focus on the interplay between the physiological, endocrinological, neurological, and psychological responses to arousal (both sexual and fear-based arousal). 

In What kind of Domina are you? you will learn about a variety of different verbal and physical domination types and ways to express power balances as well as different types of emotional and physical care. Perhaps you wish to be in complete control and will use ropes to attain that, or perhaps you desire to be respected and so will utilise discipline, or perhaps you wish to be worshipped above all else and so will imploy seduction and psychological manipulation, perhaps you wish to be powerful and cruel and so will employ whips in your sadism. This is the first of many steps down an evermore intricate stairwell of precision that will lead you to understand what is unique about your Domination, and how you will attain it.

In Scene design you will learn how to create and plan a BDSM scene. We will start with a lecture, where the Professorin explains a few different types of scenes such as predicament bondage, bondage and humiliation, torture and rewarding stimulation. Particular focus will be given to how the physical and psychological elements are used to complement the power dynamics. The majority of the class will be focused on creating unique scenes of your own with the Professorin’s guidance.

Lessons:

Conceptual Skills

Physiology and Psychology of the Nervous System, Erogenous Zones, subspace, and the Orgasm

Conceptual Skills

Scene Design

Conceptual Skills

Frameworks of Sexuality and Gender for Non-normative Bodies and Identities

Conceptual Skills

What kind of Domina are you?

Class Info

The lessons at Miss Kill’s Domina Finishing School are private lessons held at the studio in Weisensee, Berlin. The classes are offered for a wide range of skill sets from absolute amateurs and casual players to professional Dominatrixes. Private lessons are two hours long and you are the only student so that you can have the undivided attention of the Professorin and model as well as learning in a safe and private atmosphere where you can ask as many questions as you need. For relevant individual lessons, a model will be provided to practice on. Classes can also be booked by couples or small groups.